Thursday, September 4, 2008

Thursday September 4th, 2008

Where does the time go? You would think I would have all this time to journal and read and cook...all the things I always thought I would do if I had time off, but I still find myself trying to catch up in my journal! The last couple of weeks have been busy with random stuff. I've been crazy with trying to get things cleaned and organized to make room for baby. Her room is coming along nicely! I put up some cute curtains and repainted an old dresser to go with her brown and pink theme! We had a 4D ultrasound last night which I was hesitant about, but it was amazing! And now I know for sure that she is a she so I can actually take tags off stuff, wash it and put it away! We are 29 weeks as of today and so I was hesitant because I had always heard how alien-like they look this early because they have no fat, but I think she looks pretty good :) Greg wanted the ultrasound so bad...he told me he was feeling a little left out because I get to feel her inside me that he really, really wanted to see her! I couldn't say no to him...I am just so happy he is so into his little girl. Even the woman at the ultrasound place said that she was impressed that Greg called and made the appointment because it is usually to wife that is dragging the husband there.
She has my upper lip for sure and Greg's nose. Well actually, it's greg's mom's nose! We learned that she is already head down so we wont have to worry about her being breech and having to have a C-section which is good. I was shocked to find out that where I thought her feet were was really her butt!!! She must have turned recently because I used to feel hard kicks where her butt is now. Unless that was just her shakin her booty the whole time!

I wasn't shocked to see that she was already sucking her thumb like mommy :) She looked so cozy and happy. Greg even exclaimed during the ultrasound "look shes smiling!" I didn't have the heart to tell him that baby's can't smile until they are a couple of months old :)

After the ultrasound, we headed to San Clemente to meet Scott and Melissa for some mexican food! They are such great friends :) They went to Oregon a couple months ago and brought us back an OSE Beaver onesie....so cute! They live in Laguna so its perfect for us to meet in San Clemente becaue it's only about a half hour drive for each of us and it's a super cute town. During dinner Greg and I were raving about our (really MY) new favorite place in the world, Frugos the self-serve frozen yogurt place by our house that I have to go to everyday!!!! Ironically enough when we walked out of the restaurant there was a frozen yogurt place right across the street, so of course we had to go! Usually I just get plain vanilla because its so rich and creamy AND it non-fat! Greg loves to mix vanilla with grahm cracker and strawberries, so we shared a big one of those! Scott and Melissa did what any first-timer self-serve yogurt goer would do....loaded up with a bunch of fun toppings like oreo, peanut butter cup, sprinkles....

Last weekend was the first weekend in awhile that Greg and I didn't spend the whole weekend doing some sort of project and just relaxed all weekend long instead....and it was so nice! We went to the pool and read our 'Great Expectations' book together. We are getting ready to start classes so we are reading up on what to expect before and during labor so that we are somewhat prepared for the classes. We spent all day Sunday at Lori's house for Jeff's 49th birthday. We ate a ton of food and then played poker until about midnight which was a ton of fun! I hadn't stayed up past 8 in awhile! The next day was labor day and we took the bug for a cruise down to Oceanside and then to Trader Joes to pick up some fresh veggies and pita bread for Greg to make Kabobs! They were delicious. We sat on the back patio and listened to Norah Jones and sipped out of wine glasses...greg had wine and I had lemonade that I made from our lemon tree!

Saturday, August 16, 2008

Saturday August 16th, 2008

It's 8:30 am and I have been sitting in the garage since 6 this morning because I got one of my wild hairs and decided to have a garage sale today. I am such a dork. Garage sales are such a waste of time and I know this but for some reason I thought this time would be different. Looks like I will be making a very large deposit to goodwill later today!
Lot's to catch up on in my journal. When we left Oregon we knew that aunt Sheila was not doing well. Her health had been deteriorating for a few years from all the radiation she had almost 15 years ago when she was diagnosed with cancer. She couldn't come to Oregon because she was so weak and really needed to focus on eating and gaining strength back, but she became suddenly ill with pnumonia and was rushed to the hospital on Wednesday while we were in Oregon. Bill started looking into flights home and then she got even worse, so Bill, Noah and Josh decided they needed to get to Key West asap to be with her. They got back on Sunday and Sheila passed away on Tuesday evening. It all happened so fast and of course we all wish we could have spent time with her, but I am just so thankful that her entire family (Bill, Jason Ian, Noah and Josh) was there by her side!!!! This is a very remarkable thing because they were all in different parts of the world and dropped everything to get home to their mother. I wish I could have spent some more time with Sheila. I was planning on going to Key West in a couple of weeks to be with her and was really looking forward to quality time just her and I. Sheila was always so great to talk to. She had a way of looking at anything and everything in a very insightful way. I could listen to her for hours because she was just so interesting and had so much life knowledge! I will miss her dearly. Her spirit will certainly live on in all of us!!! Rest in peace Sheila.
It feels so weird to try and transition into anything else after that, so we'll save the rest for a later post.

Tuesday, August 5, 2008

Tuesday August 5th, 2008

Let's see, where did I leave off? There were only three more days of our Oregon trip, but they were jam packed! Friday was my baby shower. Mom and Liana hosted it and it was at mom's house starting at 6. I met Liana to help her with the finishing touches while Greg went golfing with his dad, uncle Tim and Mike Taylor at Sandalee Golf Course by the house. I picked Liana up at her parents house. That is where I took this super cute pic of her and I in her mom's beautiful patio garden! We went to the dollar store to get some decorations, costco to get some food and Victoria's Secret to get the prizes for the games. By the time we got back to the house we only had 1 hour to get the party put together. I let mom and Liana do the decorating while I figured out logistics like "how are people going to walk through my mother's house?!"
People started showing up and then before I knew it, it was 10:00! I had so much fun! I got to see a bunch of friends and family that I never get to see. Here is a list of the people that were there: mom, Liana, Carol Brown, Dortha Savage, Maria Fazio, Molly Milan, Stephanie Wilmus, Shawna, Bobbi, Angela Smith, Lindsie Taylor, Lani (who I hadn't seen since West Linn HS days over 12 years ago!!!, Greg's mom and sister and Renee showed up at the end!!! It was a lot of fun. We ate, played games, opened presents :) I got a ton of PINK CLOTHES! Super cute stuff, although I was really hoping to get more from our registery. We did get the swing we wanted from Angela and Lindsie! We just need so many of the necessities like a crib, stroller, car seat, rocker, bottles, diapers,etc....but the clothes are fun so I don't blame people for wanting to buy them instead. Molly Milan made a very special book for the baby's time capsule that is all about "leaping" because 2008 is a leap year.
The next day was Saturday August 2nd...Greg and my 5th wedding anniversary, Tim and Molly's 28th anniversary and Rowan's wedding day. Greg and I woke up early and drove down to NE portland to meet Blake, Ethan & Angela, Mike & Lindsie for breakfast at the Tin Shed a super cute and yummy breakfast place on Alberta! Then we headed to Maryville Nursing Home to say goodbye to grandma. It was so hard saying goodbye to grandma because I never know if I am going to see her again. She asked us to come back tomorrow and when I told her we were leaving the next day she started crying. Then I started crying and we cried together. She eventually closed her eyes to fall asleep, but all I could think about was how she could just stop breathing right then and there. Part of me, as bad as it may sound, felt okay with that idea I think because I would rather be there to say goodbye to grandma in person then to hear about it over the phone. I want her to stay alive long enough to meet her great granddaughter, but I also know how miserable she is and how badly she wants to be up in heaven with grandpa! I went to kiss grandma on the forehead and her eyes opened again and we just stared into eachother's eyes...it was a moment I will never forget. Our life together flashed before me and I suddenly thought of every happy memory I had of grandma. Like going to the beach house and back to school shopping, feeding the seagals, going into the pantry at her house to get some goodies, eating oyster crackers in the back seat of her cadillac :) We were both crying again and when I asked her to stop, she told me it was happy tears which all of a sudden made the moment very comforting. We watched he close her eyes to go to sleep and we left.
over to Daniell and Jarod's to say goodbye to them, the kids and Greg's parents. I hate goodbyes!



Then we finally headed to Dad's for the wedding. The house looked beautiful! Molly told Greg and I that we were sitting at the front table with her & Tim and Dad & Marge which I thought was very special. When Rowan and Alicia walked down the lawn and stood in front of the minister, the first thing he said was, "We are gathered here today to celebrate the marriage of Rowan and Alicia.
They would first like to ackowledge Rowan's parents 28th wedding anniversary and his cousin Stephanie and husband Greg's 5th wedding anniversary. At this time Rowan and Alicia would like to present a rose to each of the couples." Rowan gave the rose to his mother and Alicia handed me a rose and said "congratulations!". I cried of course, but thankfully I was wearing sunglasses!

Monday, August 4, 2008

Monday August 4th, 2008

It's Monday morning and we just got back from 10 days in Oregon! Fun trip, but it feels so good to be home! I went to the gym this morning at 4 and got to see Nestor and the rest of the gang which was nice :) I got my hour of cardio in and did a little weights, but took it easy for the most part so that I can go tomorrow without being too sore. I walked a handful of times while I was staying at dad's and that was nice, but I didn't lift a finger the last few days we were there so I felt a little lathargic today. As I am sitting here typing baby is pounding inside of me...she feels a whole lot bigger than 1 pound! As of today, we are 26 weeks which means it is THE FIRST OFFICIAL DAY OF MY THIRD TRIMESTER!!! I can't believe it...only 3 more months!
Our trip was a lot of fun and jam packed with festivities. We left San Diego on July 24th (Thursday) and since we were flying standby on a buddy pass from Sharla, we ended up getting stuck in Phoenix that night and then flying into Portland the next morning. Liana picked us from the airport and we headed to Wilamette McMinamins for some lunch. It was a perfect beautiful sunny day, so we sat out on the patio. Greg and Liana had an ice cold microbrew...mmmmm. I had a couple sips :) We headed to dad's after that and Greg and I headed down to the river for a bit. I got really emotional sitting on the dock watching the river and remenising about all the happy memories I have of growing up on that river. There are very few things that make my heart feel so much love and passion...being home on the river is one of them.
We headed down to Hebb Park for a bit and Mike & Lindsie joined us at about 4. About 6 we headed back into Wilamette for some food at Cooperstown. Dad and Marge met us all there and then we all headed back to the house for some drinks (lemonade and sparkling water for me!)
The next day was dad's annual party which was a lot of fun! After catching up with all the family, friends and neighbors Matt took us out on his boat for a bit. Tom bro, a couple of Matt's friends and Uncle Bill were on the boat with us. It was dusk...my favorite time of day next to sunrise.
The sunsets in oregon are amazing! We don't get too many sunsets in San Diego...they are there, but without any clouds in the sky, they just aren't anything special.
The next day was Gavin's 3rd Birthday (July 27th)! We got Gavin a pinata and stuffed it with a bunch of candy...no chocolate of course because JJ is allergic. We had a little Hartgraves family reunion at mom's house! Dean, Sharla, Max, Jack, Carolyn, Brian, Danielle, Brian, Jarod, JJ and Gavin were ALL there! It was the first time we were all together since our wedding 5 years ago!
Gavin has developed such a little personality and is SO funny!! He was so fascinated by the fact that there was a "baby in aunt Stephanie's belly" and he was so cute because he kept touching my belly and kissing it and saying that he wanted the baby to come out so that he could meet her :) He even named her Hailey after his girlfriend!
We had a BBQ and then some cake and ice cream! I had 4 bowls of ice cream!!!! I was so sick to my stomach by the time that 4th bowl was gone. Yuck, I won't forget that feeling for awhile! Although, sitting here writing and thinking about ice cream is making me crave it...uh oh :)
It was so nice to sit, relax and just be with the whole family. The Hartgraves are so nice to be around cuz they are just laid back and normal. My family is so hard to handle sometimes, but maybe that's just because it's my family. Everyone played ping pong while mom blasted the juke box with the oldies!
Next day was Monday and we headed out to the ranch for the day. Greg kept giving me shit saying, "whoo hoo, the big Rowan Reunion '08!" It was pretty funny considering the fact that it was just him and I out there! Uncle Bill was there too but he was working on building the great room lodge thingy/commom room out in the forest. He has done such a great job out there! There are 4 cabins he has built already and they each have their own private access to the river and plenty of privacy. Greg and I just hung out. Most people would probably be bored out of their minds, but we tool advantage of "BFE" (being in the middle of nowhere with nothing to do). We swam, hiked up the river a bit and fished. Didn't catch anything but it was so much fun trying.
The water is so clear there that you can see your hook 20 feet below the surface, so we could see when fish were coming to nibble :)
Here is a pic of Greg looking especially adventerous :) He always gets annoyed when I take pictures, so 9 out of 10 times when you see a pic of him he is being a smart ass! And of course I made him take some pics of me...otherwise I wouldn't exist. I have asked him to take a lot of pics lately because I feel like my body changes so much everyday and I want to remember it ALL!
I don't remember what we did on Tuesday, but Wednesday we went and hung out downtown portland all day long! Well first we stopped off in Wilamette for some Sharis breakfast with Greg's parents and sister and Gavin. From there we headed down to Hawthorne district and walked around and went in all the cute shops. I love it down there! When I saw Ben and Jerrys I had to stop so we had some ice cream :) Here is a pic of Brian and Gavin as Ben and Jerry! We had our ice cream and did some more window shopping. The family headed home afterwards and Greg and I headed over to NW portland....my fav! We drove around and looked at houses way out of our price range with breathtaking views! I love dreaming about being able to live in a house like that....on top of a hill with a beautiful view of downtown portland. mmmmmmm. After that, I headed to the nail salon to get my nails done and sent Greg down to the bar to have a few beers :) If I weren't pregnant we would probably be on a pub crawl...there are the coolest little places to have a beer in NW portland!
Next stop was St. Patricks Catholic Church...the church where we were married 5 years ago!! It brought back so many memories to be back at the church. Memories of grandpa because his name was engraved inside for his generous contributions to the church. Memories of Betsy and how beautiful and full of life she was on my wedding day. Memories of all of our friends and family being with us to share in such a happy day!! I made Greg this great book for our 5th wedding anniversary that recaps the last five years and the first 10 pages or so are of our wedding day! The book turned out so nice...I love mypublisher.comf by the way!
Thursday morning we went to see grandma again. Although Maryville is a very nice place, it kills me everytime we see her in there. All she can do is lay there and wait for people to come visit with her. She doesn't have any friends left accept Maria and her only family is mom, uncle rollie and me. Matt never goes to see her which also breaks my heart. I assume that it is just too hard for him so he denies the whole situation. I hope it is not just because he is selfish. He has never been really good about wanting to be with family, but I know he has a good heart. We visited with grandma for awhile and then took her for a nice long walk. Then we headed out to the ranch to meet Josh and Bonnie, his finance! Noah and Amanda and Cadence were also there. Bill was there of course and then Dad even joined us for a little bit on his way out to the lake to go skiing. We bbq'd and swam. The water was so cold! I heard that a pregnant belly floats easily so here is a pic of me trying to stick it out of the water....it wasn't working too well :) I had about a gallon of gatorade while everyone else got to suck down cold brewskis. Even Cadence was enjoying a little Mojito!

Well, I need to sign off for now, but will be back to finish off the Oregon trip festivities........

Sunday, July 20, 2008

Sunday July 20th, 2008

It's 7:30 pm and I'm just unwinding from the weekend. I have to start by saying that Friday was kind of a scary day. I have been feeling this little girl move inside me non-stop for the last few weeks and then all of a sudden I didn't feel a thing for an entire day. I waited until the next day to see if I would feel anything and NOTHING, so I called the Doctor. The doctor didn't seem too worried but she was glad I called. She said to go home and eat something, have some ice water, and lay down for one hour focusing on feeling movement. I didn't feel anything for the first 20 mins or so, but then Greg came in and talked to my belly and put his hand on it and sure enough, she started to kick again. What a relief!!!! When I couldn't feel her I was so scared and remember thinking how all I wanted was to feel her...how every little thing I had been worrying about suddenly was so unimportant! Maybe I needed this little reality check. A little something to put everything back into perspective for me :)
Friday night we went over to John and Sara's for dinner...carne asada tacos! That was a lot of fun! Then Saturday morning I slept in until 7:30, showered, and packed a bag to head to Palm Desert Marriot for Anna's bachelorette party! We pulled in right before noon and headed straight down to the spa for our treatments! I had an amazing facial :) Then it was pool time! I just relaxed and fed the bride-to-be drinks since I couldn't drinkl. Yeah, Palm Desert was a very different experience than it usually is considering the fact that usually I am drinking poolside the entire time. It was actually really nice and relaxing though, so I didn't mind. We headed back up to the room to get ready for dinner at about 6 and then headed to Mercados (the Japanese Benihana style restaraunt at the resort). Dinner was a blast! Then it was Costa's time. Costa's is the dance club that I literally did not recognize when we walked in since I am usually 3 sheets by that time. I really tried to hang, but dancing sexy with a big ol belly just wasn't feeling cool. I went to the bar where a guy asked if he could buy me a drink and my response was "sure, I'd love an ice water!"

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Thursday July 17th, 2008

Yesterday was opening day at the Del Mar horse races!! Greg and I went and met Brian there. What an event! We always go to the horse races, but never on opening day and boy was it crazy. It is "hat day" so everyone where very extravagant hats and get really dressed up. I couldn't believe some of the women and how dressed up they got. There were limos and fancy cars everywhere and lots of money!! We got there in time for the 2nd race and bet on every race up til the 6th and then headed to Del Mar to get some food. My fav spot En Fuego was closed down for an anniversary party so we went next door to Bully's North which is a dark bar you would never think had good food, but the food was amazing!!
Today I went to the gym at 5, came home and made us coffee and we laid in bed for awhile looking up baby stuff :) Like what she looks like at 23 weeks (that is how far along I am) and what my body is going through. I read an article about breastfeeding and got a little scared to be honest, but I am sure it will all come naturally. We do need to sign up for some classes here soon though that will prepare us for that amongst many other new parent duties!
Today I have a lot to do including the laundry and some other routine house cleaning, I need to go to home depot to get some finishing touches for our new front patio, I am working on making an Oceanside Buyers Guide as a marketing tool to attract new buyers, and some other random stuff. Hopefully I will get a little time by the pool to read my book (A New Earth) too!

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Sunday July 13th, 2008

Having a great day today! Met Nestor at the gym at 6 for a boxing session and then came home to shower and snuggle with Greg for a little bit before heading down to the 101 Diner for some yummy breakfast with Sara. We shared an omlette and stuffed french toast...SO GOOD! After breakfast I stopped by Lindsie and Chris' house to say hey. They were hung over eating breakfast burritos sharing some fun stories of the night before with me. I must say I don't miss being hung over and spending money on drinks. I love getting up early in the morning...the sunrise and early morning are my fav part of the day! Home now and need to do some house cleaning.