The next day was Saturday August 2nd...Greg and my 5th wedding anniversary, Tim and Molly's 28th anniversary and Rowan's wedding day. Greg and I woke up early and drove down to NE portland to meet Blake, Ethan & Angela, Mike & Lindsie for breakfast at the Tin Shed a super cute and yummy breakfast place on Alberta! Then we headed to Maryville Nursing Home to say goodbye to grandma. It was so hard saying goodbye to grandma because I never know if I am going to see her again. She asked us to come back tomorrow and when I told her we were leaving the next day she started crying. Then I started crying and we cried together. She eventually closed her eyes to fall asleep, but all I could think about was how she could just stop breathing right then and there. Part of me, as bad as it may sound, felt okay with that idea I think because I would rather be there to say goodbye to grandma in person then to hear about it over the phone. I want her to stay alive long enough to meet her great granddaughter, but I also know how miserable she is and how badly she wants to be up in heaven with grandpa! I went to kiss grandma on the forehead and her eyes opened again and we just stared into eachother's eyes...it was a moment I will never forget. Our life together flashed before me and I suddenly thought of every happy memory I had of grandma. Like going to the beach house and back to school shopping, feeding the seagals, going into the pantry at her house to get some goodies, eating oyster crackers in the back seat of her cadillac :) We were both crying again and when I asked her to stop, she told me it was happy tears which all of a sudden made the moment very comforting. We watched he close her eyes to go to sleep and we left.
over to Daniell and Jarod's to say goodbye to them, the kids and Greg's parents. I hate goodbyes!
Then we finally headed to Dad's for the wedding. The house looked beautiful! Molly told Greg and I that we were sitting at the front table with her & Tim and Dad & Marge which I thought was very special. When Rowan and Alicia walked down the lawn and stood in front of the minister, the first thing he said was, "We are gathered here today to celebrate the marriage of Rowan and Alicia.
They would first like to ackowledge Rowan's parents 28th wedding anniversary and his cousin Stephanie and husband Greg's 5th wedding anniversary.
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